Always look at the BRIGHT SIGHT...!

Bismillahirrohmanirrohim... 

*In the name of Allah, The Beneficent, The Merciful*
 

We are still in a more or less the same topic as the previous ones. About hardships, obstacles, problems, pains etc...
Those are actually the things that "encourage" you to WASTE your time even more and make you a...LOSER!!!

Yeah, right.... It does make sense when the first time you read this, but later on, you'll be cracking your head wondering..."huh? Loser? Why meh?"

Okay... [kalo tulih panjang2 pon bukan ada org nak baca...balik2 aku jgk syok sendiri...muakakaka] I'd be happy to give you (an/several) example (s)..(kalo aku rajen aku bg bnyk la ok...XD)

Situation one:

{I/ You/ We/ They/ US...} as human beings and Allah's servants we CANNOT escape from problems and difficulties. No matter how far we go or run, whatever we do, wherever  and whenever we try to hide (ahhhh cliche!)... problems would always be a part of you.

Problems are VERY beneficial and advantageous IF you know how to handle it well. We need difficulties and obstacles to make us stronger,  tougher, and more independent. Through problems we learn that life isnt just about having fun. Through hardships we learn that life isnt always easy, beautiful and sweet. Wanna know or ever wondering how strong you are?

Well... just wait until obstacles and barriers come your way...! :D

I mean for example, we often find people with terminal illness are very courageous, strong-willed, and optimist. 

WHY???

Because... THEY HAVE SUCCESSFULLY seen the bright sight  BEYOND SUCH BARRIER and..., you never know how strong you are until "being strong" is the only choice you have, right? Anyway, what benefit will you gain by crying and screaming? Your life would just become more miserable... I guess most people would prefer to "enjoy and appreciate every second of their life", no?

So, whenever we have problems, instead of wasting our time doing nothing but tormenting our own soul just like a LOSER, why dont we look beyond our four walls? 

• Give yourself a break.
• You can cry your heart out 'cause sometimes crying does help reducing ur inside "pressure"...
• Close your eyes.
• Relax...
• Take a deep breath...!
• Exhale slowly...
• Take a deep breath again and exhale it bla3 (repeat it as many times as you want cause o2's free XD)
• Open your eyes...(owh you can close it if you want..ngeeee :D)
• Reflect upon your problems and then start to think RATIONALLY!

and.... in the end, all you have to do or remember is that, HARDSHIPS and OBSTACLES only there to teach you to be stronger and more independent!

It makes you being more sensible and assertive each time you r making a decision. It boosts your confidence in facing any more difficulties later on.

{Owh by the way, 

I also found something useful from my reading and I would like to share it here..

Lets learn from it, okay?

XDXDXD

enjoy!

From La Tahzan (Dont b sad)}

An intelligent and skillful person transforms losses into profits; whereas, the unskilled and person aggravates his own predicament, often making two disasters out of one. 

Examples: 

1) The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was compelled to leave Makkah, but rather than quitting his mission, he continued in Madinah (the city that took its place in history with lightning speed).

2)Imam Al-Sarakhsi was held as a prisoner, kept at the bottom of an unused well,; he managed therein to produce twenty volumes on Islamic jurisprudence. 

------and many more-----

Therefore, if you are afflicted with a misfortune, LOOK ON THE BRIGHT SIGHT....

If someone were to hand you a glass full of squeezed lemons, add to it a handful of sugar.

And, if someone were to give u a poisonous snake as a gift, keep its precious skin and leave the rest!

[And it may be that you dislike a thing that is good for you...(Quran 2: 216)]

Its time for us to look at the other side of a tragedy- a circumstance of pure evil doesnt exist, and in all situations one can find goodness, profit and reward from Allah...

The end...

P/S: May Allah bless us all...Amiin ya Rabbal A'lamin...XD